I have date tomorrow…I met this guy online…one of those who looks perfect on the paper, fun when you chat with him, but then when you talk with him on the phone…something isn’t right…he sounds like "big head"…
Finally I'm feeling ok by myself and I'm learning to enjoy being single…I'm not ready/I don’t want relationship but I would like to meet new people/guys…just to see what is out there…so I agreed to meet with him…
Now I have doubts…I don't feel like to waste my evening in miserable company but on the other hand I don’t want to be as judgmental as proclaim him "big head" after 2 phone calls…
Should I go or cancel???
Btw. I have canceled already once on him…but I had good reason…
Claires reply was mine as well.
My friend does on line dating and has met some lovley guys trust your intuition.
Another tip when meeting someone you only know online always make the first meeting in a crowded place, no alcohol, and in the daytime. Say coffee for an hour if you like each other its far easier to arrange a night out after that if you dont you know it is only a coffee and away.
Thanks for the input!
We agreed on diner in part of town I know, in fairly crowded place.
I will have my friend call me in 1 hour into the date…since he lives really close I might go to cry or complain on his shoulder afterwards anyway;)
Wish me good luck! The last thing I need right now is to meet some really disepointing/enoying dude:huh:
I have read some blogs on this website and I must say that even thought they are sad for the most part…it looks like they are some nice guys out there…that's all what I'm asking for now…the hope that they exist!
Just thought I would add a note to say I am thinking of you!
Hope it's going well.
And another thing, I thought that there was noone that I would ever find that would make me smile again. I did, and we have been shacked up together (hee hee) for 6 months now, and I can honestly say, I have never been happier.
I wish you and all others all the luck in the world, we deserve it!