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What are we each entitled to in our divorce settlement?

What does the law say about how to split the house, how to share pensions and other assets, and how much maintenance is payable.

What steps can we take to reach a fair agreement?

The four basic steps to reaching an agreement on divorce finances are: disclosure, getting advice, negotiating and implementing a Consent Order.

What is a Consent Order and why do we need one?

A Consent Order is a legally binding document that finalises a divorcing couple's agreement on property, pensions and other assets.

Do you need help sorting out a fair financial settlement?

Our consultant service offers expert advice and support to help you reach agreement on a fair financial settlement quickly, and for less than a quarter of the cost of using a traditional high street solicitor.

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02 Apr 12 #321133 by raybird
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i also believe in the soulmate thing, and there is someone out there for all of us, just a matter of where and when xxxxxxxxxxx

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02 Apr 12 #321262 by samchik1
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I''ve never believed in the idea of "perfect fit" or "the one." Sure, a degree of fit is desirable, but for me it''s less about the fit than it is about working hard to make it work, being flexible, growing together, making things fit. I feel some people (my wife included) use the idea of "us just not being suited" as an excuse not to put in the hard yards. People are dynamic anyhow and even if you click at the beginning it can''t last...there has to be committment when things shift. Bailing out at the first sign of incongruence is just plain wrong, especially in a marriage.

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02 Apr 12 #321267 by Deedum
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The older I get, the more importance I place on shared values, beliefs, similar background, etc.

I now realise my ex and I were like chalk and cheese when I look at our upbringings, outlook on life, aspirations, etc.

Luckily I have met someone else now who does not think my ideas and dreams for the future are impossible and actually wants to share them with me.

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