I made the classic mistake of ''letting things lie'' even though I was bored out of my mind with him (when he wasn''t out boozing)as I thought the kids wanted him there.
They tell me years later that they wished I''d acted sooner.
It''s hard to get it right!
I tried to think of any ''good times'' he''d created for us...no drawn a blank there. How could I have been so stupid!
I look forward to enjoying the freedom of single life - can''t wait til divorce is finalised.