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The New You

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making new friends Started on 14 Apr 11, by julie123 Last Post 18 Apr 11 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:6 :256	Last Post by NellNoRegrets 18 Apr 11
Just wanting to get some thoughts out... Started on 28 Mar 11, by drsox Last Post 29 Mar 11 by drsox	Replies:2 :241	Last Post by drsox 29 Mar 11
Hes Left Me - Thank God! Started on 21 Aug 10, by sillywoman Last Post 15 Mar 11 by winyourdivorce 1 2	Replies:11 :555	Last Post by winyourdivorce 15 Mar 11
The Cloud is lifting Started on 31 May 10, by LisaLL Last Post 05 Feb 11 by Paul. 1 2 3 4	Replies:22 :968	Last Post by Paul. 05 Feb 11
Interview ! Started on 02 Feb 11, by camomile1 Last Post 02 Feb 11 by sun flower	Replies:3 :221	Last Post by sun flower 02 Feb 11
New Year's resolutions Started on 28 Dec 10, by MrsH2013 Last Post 22 Jan 11 by Phewthatsalmostover 1 2	Replies:9 :540	Last Post by Phewthatsalmostover 22 Jan 11
Happy Birthday!!! Started on 27 Dec 10, by DancingButterfly Last Post 29 Dec 10 by Shezi 1 2	Replies:7 :574	Last Post by Shezi 29 Dec 10
Happy Birthday!!! Started on 24 Dec 10, by DancingButterfly Last Post 24 Dec 10 by JayneEyre	Replies:6 :272	Last Post by JayneEyre 24 Dec 10
Happy Birthday!!! Started on 23 Dec 10, by DancingButterfly Last Post 24 Dec 10 by Shezi 1 2 3 4	Replies:21 :1159	Last Post by Shezi 24 Dec 10
Good Luck in your New Home Started on 06 Dec 10, by DancingButterfly Last Post 23 Dec 10 by davycroc 1 2 3	Replies:19 :802	Last Post by davycroc 23 Dec 10
Dating sites, assertion and brown grass for ex. Started on 21 Dec 10, by gisellavalentino Last Post 22 Dec 10 by hawaythelads	Replies:3 :200	Last Post by hawaythelads 22 Dec 10
getting on Started on 13 Nov 10, by wherenext Last Post 13 Dec 10 by mariem1967	Replies:4 :216	Last Post by mariem1967 13 Dec 10
Happy Birthday!!! Started on 07 Dec 10, by DancingButterfly Last Post 07 Dec 10 by Milli	Replies:5 :266	Last Post by Milli 07 Dec 10
He will still fancy you when you're naked Started on 15 Jun 10, by Kimmi Last Post 15 Nov 10 by totallylost 1 2 3 ... 7	Replies:45 :1701	Last Post by totallylost 15 Nov 10
It's Absolute Day!!!! Started on 25 Jun 10, by wolfali16 Last Post 14 Nov 10 by want my life back 1 2	Replies:7 :525	Last Post by want my life back 14 Nov 10
Moving on, stronger, but......... Started on 25 Oct 10, by gisellavalentino Last Post 07 Nov 10 by fairylandtime 1 2 3 ... 6	Replies:38 :1327	Last Post by fairylandtime 07 Nov 10
how to start anew? Started on 01 Jun 10, by ShepEss Last Post 31 Oct 10 by fairylandtime 1 2	Replies:11 :500	Last Post by fairylandtime 31 Oct 10
. Started on 14 Sep 10, by recycled Last Post 15 Sep 10 by recycled	Replies:2 :198	Last Post by recycled 15 Sep 10
Name Change Dilemma Started on 03 Sep 10, by Jasper18 Last Post 03 Sep 10 by divorcegirl	Replies:5 :239	Last Post by divorcegirl 03 Sep 10
nawts sacred Started on 26 Aug 10, by bestridofhim Last Post 31 Aug 10 by lovelorn_maiden 1 2 3	Replies:19 :755	Last Post by lovelorn_maiden 31 Aug 10
Quote for today! Started on 13 Jul 10, by DancingButterfly Last Post 13 Jul 10 by DancingButterfly	Replies:0 :192	Last Post by DancingButterfly 13 Jul 10
Today is a good day because...... Started on 15 Jun 10, by rubytuesday Last Post 17 Jun 10 by Helli 1 2 3 ... 6	Replies:36 :1184	Last Post by Helli 17 Jun 10
Now it is all over and I no longer cry, THANKYOU Started on 17 Jun 10, by ldg Last Post 17 Jun 10 by ldg	Replies:2 :216	Last Post by ldg 17 Jun 10
I did it and he can't take it away from me Started on 13 Jun 10, by Mitchum Last Post 15 Jun 10 by Milby 1 2	Replies:10 :440	Last Post by Milby 15 Jun 10
Retraining after Homemaking & Child Rearing Started on 01 Jun 10, by MontyPython Last Post 01 Jun 10 by Confused2	Replies:2 :218	Last Post by Confused2 01 Jun 10
starting again - with everything! Started on 01 Jun 10, by pink123 Last Post 01 Jun 10 by mumof5	Replies:3 :195	Last Post by mumof5 01 Jun 10
Happiness Started on 29 Apr 10, by Helli Last Post 17 May 10 by Helli 1 2	Replies:9 :454	Last Post by Helli 17 May 10
Starting anew Started on 22 Apr 10, by needafreshstart Last Post 04 May 10 by nagios	Replies:1 :197	Last Post by nagios 04 May 10
life much better now Started on 27 Apr 10, by ausgirl Last Post 27 Apr 10 by chris75	Replies:1 :197	Last Post by chris75 27 Apr 10
My decree nisi arrived yesterday! Started on 21 Apr 10, by NotMyIdea Last Post 21 Apr 10 by wazo	Replies:3 :192	Last Post by wazo 21 Apr 10
Forgiveness......... Started on 25 Jun 09, by Marshy_ Last Post 19 Apr 10 by lovelorn_maiden 1 2 3 ... 9	Replies:62 :3267	Last Post by lovelorn_maiden 19 Apr 10
What's wrong with being happy??? Started on 08 Mar 10, by Lookto2012 Last Post 12 Apr 10 by Mitchum	Replies:6 :219	Last Post by Mitchum 12 Apr 10
Name change Started on 07 Apr 10, by orange13 Last Post 08 Apr 10 by when will it all end?!	Replies:1 :224	Last Post by when will it all end?! 08 Apr 10
Self sufficiency Started on 06 Apr 10, by paperromance Last Post 06 Apr 10 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:1 :216	Last Post by NellNoRegrets 06 Apr 10
Living alone Started on 06 Apr 10, by paperromance Last Post 06 Apr 10 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:1 :212	Last Post by NellNoRegrets 06 Apr 10
feeling a bit panic-y Started on 15 Mar 10, by ShepEss Last Post 17 Mar 10 by Ursa Major	Replies:3 :246	Last Post by Ursa Major 17 Mar 10
Fabulously Fit at Forty...one!! Started on 07 Mar 10, by MontyPython Last Post 08 Mar 10 by chris75	Replies:1 :188	Last Post by chris75 08 Mar 10
Poem Started on 01 Mar 10, by northern Last Post 02 Mar 10 by Elle	Replies:1 :192	Last Post by Elle 02 Mar 10
Manchester - Valentines Wish Started on 14 Feb 10, by skirmish Last Post 14 Feb 10 by Shezi	Replies:1 :182	Last Post by Shezi 14 Feb 10
meeting new friends .. ideas on a postcard Started on 06 Feb 10, by ShepEss Last Post 06 Feb 10 by MontyPython	Replies:2 :218	Last Post by MontyPython 06 Feb 10