I've started a thread and it is now locked. I guess this is because I said I'd come back in a few weeks and delete.
This is an extremely delicate issue for me, my family, my friends, now and perhaps more so in the future.
I appreciate that my thread my help others, foot steps in the snow. I've had the answers I needed, I will be seeking more focused advice. I'd prefer if the whole thread was now deleted. Certainly, I'd like the option of being able to edit some of my own posts.