We fathers are very well looked after here, HideFromExWife. There is no gender bias, so it is probably best not to look for it where it doesn''t exist, or you will just get people''s backs up. Most people here are supportive and constructive, and even those who aren''t become so given time and encouragement - it''s a very healing place to be.
I think you will find that the moderators, under the firm hand of RubyTuesday, are very quick to restore balance on threads which start to veer off course. The greatest asset of Wikivorce - after Ruby herself - is the wide range of experience here. I have certainly benefited from having some of my preconceptions challenged.