I just hope that some judges read these forums (they probably don't) - but just to have them realise what can go on in a divorce - for example the underhand playing. It is really quite staggering at some of the tactics.
I do realise that my situation is quite dire and that both my solicitor and barrister have agreed that my ex and his father have been quite viscious, particularly as they no I have no family - and I think that it has been a bit of sport to my ex and his family because I dared to leave them.
However, it is also the plight of other people on here that really saddens me. It all seems so very unneccessary.