after struggling to support myself and kids with no help at all from the stbx. i have now got a fulltime job as appossed to a part time job and WTC. i will be approx £100 a month better off. will this affect the outcome of my settlement? the form E only wanted details upto the end of Dec 2007 and i started my new job this week. over the same period the stbx has taken her third job and is earning £90 a week less than when she left. she could easily get the same job she used to have earning the same money. although her earnings have dropped she is still living the life style she had when she was with me. all she says is her new partner is paying for it. he is only on £16k a year but he as no debts his house is paid for.i saw the sol today and i fell like i am being screwed and the sol is not doing anything to fight my corner. the stbx as not asked for anything in 16 months, as not contributed a penny to the marital debt and is now asking for 50%. i have had it hard since she left with the debt rising and now i have a bad credit rating and can not afford to pay her 50%. i cant sleep at nights thinking about me and the kids (20 and 17) are going to be homeless and i am going to be even more in debt whilst the stbx lives her luxery lifestyle. the court always seems to favour the woman even though it was her abandonment that as put me in this situation. i could not put some of the things on my form E about her bad behaviour and what sort of settlement i was looking foras the sol rushed through it and i did not have time to let it sink in what she was saying. do i get my say in the court or have i now got to accept what i have stated on my Form E?
Do you have a date for your fist appointment? I would suggest that you tell your solicitor that your circumstances have changed and that you believe hers have too. If your court date is near then maybe you can raise this in court and ask for further information as new evidence has come to light. Circumstances have obviously changed so a financial settlement based on out of date information is not acceptable. Definetely raise this matter with your solicitor before the First Appointment for AR.
the first hearing is on 17th march. i spoke to sol and she said that the info used was for the previous tax year and as it is coming to the end of a tax year we will have to ask for new upto date info i am ok about it but my stbx wont like it.