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26 Feb 08 #15052 by DannyH
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Me divorced last year... ex wife met new bloke in Nov and I believe them to be cohabiting of sorts - dont know how many nights per week etc etc.

When and how do I go back to the courts to reduce (or zero) her spousal maintenance, and what proof do I need.

Also what would be the best approach to pursue?

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26 Feb 08 #15055 by ariesgirl63
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Hi DannyH,

My understanding is that your ex would need to be co-habiting for a minimum period of 6 months before a Court would even consider a variance. Do you have a Consent Order or other financial order that sets out the terms of SM? Proving cohabitation is another matter. Electoral registers can be used but its probably too soon for that to be of any use. You need to establish the basis on which your ex's partner is cohabiting before you look to take this any further with the Courts otherwise she will just deny everything and the matter will be thrown out and you will have wasted your money. I have even read of some people hiring a Private Detective to get evidence. Good Luck Aries x

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26 Feb 08 #15061 by loobyloo
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Hi Danny
Well this is what was said to me and my x2b at fdr (which has however gone to FH)
My x2b accused me of cohabiting..never again would I share a home with a Man!!!!
The Judge said i should be paid sm until I remarried or was PROVEN to be cohabiting. or died
It will depend on what the judges orders where as they vary
hope of help.....and good luck..the judge did add that it is very hard to prove cohabitation status
looby

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