i am now divorced from my wife of 13 years. she is moving to france with her family ,and taking my 4 children with her.i have £144000 to be split between us. i made what i thought to be agood offer, giving her £104000, and myself £40000. she has turned this down. the judge has now favoured a chargeback. she has offered me 25% total, with £12000 now and £24000 in 10 years when my youngest is 16. this sounds very unreasonable, as i was on the understanding that when the chargeback comes into affect it was split 50-50. it looks like court will have to decide on this , as she seems unwilling to co`operate. has anyone been in similar circumstances?