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07 Sep 07 #2984 by gone1
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There are some real good players out there. They prey on the good and kind. Its hard to check someone out properly. But its there if you look hard enough. People tend to believe what they want to. But look. Open your eyes.
My ex. She was married before and I was told that she divorced him becuase he stole money from her and so on.

It turned out that all she wanted him for was a sperm doner. Then she milked him via the CSA. She still is. Her oldest is 17 and the yoingest is 15. He has been paying for all those years. Poor bloke. Just becuase she wanted kids. She is one of lifes users. He didnt stand a chance.

Now there are plenty of people out there that will use you. Suck you in and spit you out. Some of them are very good at it. But there are signs. I dont think its anything to do with divorce reasons as they are often made up and falsified to get a divorce. Its there past that is important and what type of person they are. They are classic con men and women. You just have to be careful who you get involved with. You dont want to make the same mistakes again. Chris.

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