So, you are saying that she cannot count it as a debt?
The position is that we are in the mediation stage prior to instigating divorce.
The other question is what is the 'cut off' date for calculation of assets/debts??
I was asked to leave the family home in April 2006. Would that be the date at which to consider assets, or would it be the date we agree to a split in assets ( september 2007) or the date of actual divorce?
can I choose? or is it yet another thing to negotiate?