Can any kind person advise please - we have Decree Nisi and have exchanged form Es. I have savings in my own individual account, declared on Form E. What would happen if I shared those savings out in to accounts for my 3 children at this stage? My ex (nearly) is looking forward to getting a large share of those savings for himself, but I would rather put it aside for future college fees etc. Thank you.
Weary, your problem here is this. There are many people facing divorce who, given the chance, will quite happily dispose of money simply to make sure the ex will not get his/her sticky hands on it. The Courts encounter this every day of the week, more or less, and there is a danger that what you are proposing could be seen in this light.
I think a Court''s main priority will be to house both of you, and if '' putting aside '' part of your savings means that there is insufficient money to re-house your ex in an appropriate way, then his need is likely to take priority.
If I may so suggest, you and your ex are still the childrens'' parents, divorce does not change that, and you might usefully discuss the question of school fees with your x2b.