Can someone give me advice on splitting our assets
Both 48 two children ages girl and boy 15 and 7 . Married for 19 years salaries him 48k mine 8k I also receive family tax credit child benefit and child maintenance . So at the present time our net income is similar
approx £2500.Mortgage left 37K valued AT £325K .His pension still live £61K MINE £87
Thanks for your advice. My pension is 87k CETV.My Ex still contributes to his pension which will grow mine stopped in 2004 when I was made redundant from the bank .The money went into the house paying off some of the mortgage. I cannot downsize as my property is a 3 bed terrace my ex is staying with family but buying a one bed flat with help from family . He has my son one or two nights a week but am trying to come to an arrangement every other weekend . My daughter prefers to stay at home.We are attending mediation but he is refusing to disclose information so not sure if we will have to go down another route.All I want is a home for my family but feel once my son is 18 1 will be forced to sell and not have adequate funds to buy a 2 bedroom property.
I have retrained as a nursery nurse a job which although badly paid fits in with school holidays . I have always worked fitting around my family. I will be 60 when my youngest is 18 what will the future hold?