Hello i am currently paying 20% of my wages to my ex . she is stopping my 2 boys from seeing me basically she wants more than the 20% .she is living in the house with her partner . and she way she says i can see them if i provide her with a copy of my wage slip . we had a mutual agreement to see the children so im now going thru the solicitors courts to get an access order to stop her doing this . they have allready sent her a letter which she has obviously taken no notice of. we are divorced but did things mutually .
Thanks in advance
Hello my eldest is 14 , and my youngest is 7 . this has happend 3 weeks ago when i came back from holiday i took my 2 boys away with my new partner and they really like her so i recon that is the real reason but using the excuse of wanting more money . so i went thru with my solicitor what i pay , they sent her a letter to say i pay her X amount of which is the correct amount and this is no reason to stop access . sso she come back saying they are not coming until i provide her a copy of my wage slip i do see my eldest as i have taken him to school but i havnt seen my youngest will be 4 weeks this friday . so it looks like another phone call to the solicitors tomorrow . she will be getting a letter about access rights my eldest is 14 soon to be 15 he knows its his mum and can see thru it. from waht i understand my youngest is ok . just misses me and wants to see me . the stupid thing is she is living in the house with her partner so if i can deal with it . why cant she deal with the fact that i have moved on and have got a new partner