Pay Slip

Hello i am currently paying 20% of my wages to my ex . she is stopping my 2 boys from seeing me basically she wants more than the 20% .she is living in the house with her partner . and she way she says i can see them if i provide her with a copy of my wage slip . we had a mutual agreement to see the children so im now going thru the solicitors courts to get an access order to stop her doing this . they have allready sent her a letter which she has obviously taken no notice of. we are divorced but did things mutually .
Thanks in advance

Tim

Hi Tim,

You''re doing the right thing!

Blackmail by using the children is terrible.

Do you have indirect contact with them? They must be confused to why they haven''t seen you.

Good luck and keep us posted.

WR

Hello my eldest is 14 , and my youngest is 7 . this has happend 3 weeks ago when i came back from holiday i took my 2 boys away with my new partner and they really like her so i recon that is the real reason but using the excuse of wanting more money . so i went thru with my solicitor what i pay , they sent her a letter to say i pay her X amount of which is the correct amount and this is no reason to stop access . sso she come back saying they are not coming until i provide her a copy of my wage slip i do see my eldest as i have taken him to school but i havnt seen my youngest will be 4 weeks this friday . so it looks like another phone call to the solicitors tomorrow . she will be getting a letter about access rights my eldest is 14 soon to be 15 he knows its his mum and can see thru it. from waht i understand my youngest is ok . just misses me and wants to see me . the stupid thing is she is living in the house with her partner so if i can deal with it . why cant she deal with the fact that i have moved on and have got a new partner