Blimey, you are still here? I started here the same time as you, had the divorce settlement/ court visits from hell/ ex from hell, now sorted and have been happily living in my own home for nearly two years.
Why is it taking so long? It must be torture for you?
In answer to this question I have no idea, but as you are still not sorted out I would guess it counts?
Wishing you much hope and happiness to come x