For those of you that have read my history you will know that I have been to the Nici stage before, left the absolute stage for four months then attempted reconciliation, recinded the nici etc etc. Now I am doing it all again, however my solicitor stated the first time round that she would not get the absolute till the financials were sorted.
My question is can you get the absolute before the financial side is sorted or do you have to wait??
The reason I ask is that I natrually want the absolute for my own piece of mind before doing the rest. There is no one else involved on either side but as you can imagine being in the FMH is stressful enough.
in my divorce have had nici since april, my solicitor will not apply for abs until ancillary relief matters resolved...this is in my interest and not as far as i am aware a legallity.... i am desperate for absolute to get that closure but will hang on in as managed this far
hope of help to you
I know my Decree Nisi next week but sol said we dont apply for the absolute until the finances have all been dealt with.I'm sure I've read somewhere that it's the safest way as there's no chance of losing out re pension rights etc.
yes most definate get those finances done make sure it through the court signed sealed deliverd, I made that mistake X got the caash then legged it for a few years blew and has now come back for more, Now I have to rely on a judge who I hope can spot a lier a mile off as to getting the money. and the way its going looks like I may be still at this door next year, god 8 years of hassle. X is now going for my pension now in payment and my war pension which as far as I know X has not got a cat in hells chance of getting.