Hi can any1 give me there opinion plz. My marriage broke down last november & my x moved out,after a few wks he suddenly moved back. it was unbearable 4 me so in feb i moved into rented acc. between us we drew up a seperation agreement stating he would pay me £40k (MH eq £100k)we hv 1 child he pays £50 p/w.i was quite happy wiv this. but the situation at the present is im finding it hard to manage financially. I wk 16hrs get working/child tax credits & Help towards rent.Im struggling to keep up wiv all bills, i dont go out as no spare cash. x bin wiv gf 6mths now & lavishes gifts on her, hols, gold etc. but dosent buy r daughter a thing. i recenty saw sol & he said as agreement was done wivout leg rep it may b poss t get a bigger payout. I dont no wot t do 4 best. go 4 more or stick wiv wot was agreed.
wud like t er views frm both sides of situation plz
hope it all goes well for you. i saw my solicitor today. wife left me and kids to live with someone else. she has not paid a penny towards the debt, i am struggling only got £14 a month left and still need £200 for credit card bill. the sol as said i have to pay £100 a month or she wont do anymore for me. legal aid say i have a disposable income of £893 i only earn £500 plus WTC. things have been messed up by everybody all forms have alterations as the incorrect information as been put on them. apparently the wife leaving, the debt mounting up is my fault i am doing everything i can and i have to pay for the privilege of being screwed. all ex says is she has no money (lies)and gets away with it. i think i would be better if i self rep myself at least i would save some money