I'm starting to panic. I've been reading a lot of the threads and there are lots of references made and advice given about not leaving the family home.
I left my home nearly 2 years ago now, and have been struggling to pay rent for myself and 2 children ever since while he is mortgage free in our old home. I've finally received my nisi and am about to file my Form A but am now very worried that I shouldn't have left the house.
I had good reasons for leaving including the fact that the house is on his family farm, next door to his parents and sister's houses and it would have been extremely difficult for me to stay there surrounded by his family.
However, I could do with some thoughts on whether I've lost any chance of every getting my half of the value of the house? My solicitor has not referred to the fact that I left at all.
Dont panic .... i too left FMH with 2 kids for every good reason... despite 2 letters from sol he refused to budge. It has not really affected my bargaining power thus far. Also I trust my solhe has done above and beyond for me and knows whats coming... he even let me wait til all settled to pay him... so all sols not bad
take care looby