I will certainly sort this out as i really had no idea until visiting this site just what could happen post-divorce. I really did believe that the divorce was the final 'event'. Neither of us sought legal advice as we had sorted everything out ourselves when we separated, and my own guilt in leaving led me to leave him with the better deal. I still have no wish to change that as i would rather start all over again.
Thank you ever so much for your advice, i will definitely get a Consent Order so i can rest easily and build my new life.