Had my FDR today. Had pension reports ready and was willing to negotiate a deal based on equalisation of pension and 50/50 split of the home. Barristors exchanged info, My X wanted to keep house offset against my pension. I wanted as mentioned, 10 minutes to disagree, back to DJ for hearing. DJ stated FDR will not provide settlement ( 10 mins). Start final hearing procedure, directions given. I am out of pocket by £1750 and my X by about £2750. 27 years ++ of marriagem, no kids, the outcome usually always is 50/50 split. Why does my X resist so much and drain our monetary resources!. Really hacked off!!!