sorry if this is in the wrong forum. I need some advice please. Some things in this post are just for reference and I do not wish for others to comment on them unless it''s relevant to my question. Not here to be judged and can''t control anything that has or will happen. After all I was just the sperm donor (apparently)
My divorce came through a few weeks ago. Now respondents sol is requesting we sort finances. he has suggested that his client would like a financial Clean Break and has said he will draft up the documentation etc if I approve.
We currently owe around 50K after our house was repod and other loans on it. SO how does the repayment process work if we do a Clean Break?
I know they have asked me to contact them with a proposal and I also know they have hunted my ex down and are writing to her. Is she expecting to do a Clean Break and dump all the debt on me?
Also can I say I will only agree to it if she puts in that she won''t chase me for maintenance? Long story short she hasn''t since she left and I know that once it''s all over she will try to. She left me after I gave her 2 children, has already told me that she''s told the kids I am dead and wants the law to back her so that she can fleece me like a cash point to pay for her holidays etc. I will hang myself before that happens and I mean it.
Seeing as I haven''t seen my kids for years and if she gets her way I never will can I ask for her not to attempt any future CSA claims?
If not then I won''t agree to the Clean Break. It strikes me that someone who claims to be penny less suddenly wants this.. I was expecting her to be trying to get every penny out of me. Is she trying to hide something? Does anyone else smell a rat?
Thanks in advance for any comments you can give me. I can''t afford a solicitor. In fact I can hardly feed myself right now so i''m trying to deal with it myself..