FDR - 11 May
Deadline for answers to each other''s questionnaire of form E - 29th March
Deadline for valuations of field and each other''s houses - 10th April
My answers to questionnaire and valuation filed at court and sent to stbx''s solicitors in time for first deadline
His valuations provided (late) but answers to questionnaire so far has not materialised,
My solicitor sent a letter chasing them up, today we receive a letter from his solicitor, raising questions on two of my replies:-
1. In the questionnaire they asked for statements for all savings accounts for the past twelve months, I have five savings accounts, I provided the statements, none of them have anything in them, they are now asking for a Schedule as there is a lot of statements.
2. In the questionnaire they asked if I had any private pension and a forecast for my state pension. I answered that I do not have a private pension, we paid into his. I answered that if there were such a thing when i retire, i will get whatever i am entitled to at that time - they have come back with two blank forms, BR10 and BR20 and requested that i fill them in and send them off and that the answers could take weeks to come back.
I am 48 years of age and have worked all my adult life apart from when the children were babies. I am not asking for child maintenance, my children are both adults, i am not asking for spousal support
How dare they raise questions on my answers to their questionnaire when they have not even answered my questionnaire and the deadline was two weeks ago?
My solicitor has written back saying we will consider their further questions when they have answered our questionnaire. Basically in the words of HRH - feck off !!!
His pension is only small (approx 18K) - since he drewdown 15k from it when we split in 2007
they inform us that they await their client''s responses to my answers and they will let us know if they have any further questions one they have his instructions!!
Conclusion, they feck about, do not provide answers to questions, so we go to FDR and hit him with costs and go for a settlement figure based on what he has put in his Form e
Yeah i think you are right, shame the ex hasn''t worked out he is just a cash cow lol
Oh and as you asked so nicely :-
Favourite colour - red at the moment, cos that is what i am seeing mostly
Top Ten Movies :-
1. Notting Hill
2. Bridget Jones (the first one)
3. Truly madly deeply
4. American gangster
5. really can''t think of any more, afraid i don''t get out much lol
but generally chick flic and definitely no horror - i''m a hide behind a cushion type
Breakfast this morning :- Special k
Detailed definition of feck off - a word my cousins used to use (my family are Irish) when I had never heard of the other version of the f word and thought that shut up was a swear word lol - bless that was a long time ago !!!
I know you will be thinking this is all pointless and waste of time but it will be much more clear at the FDR, thetas the time the silly buggers ends and it becomes more serious, for now your solicitor has it in hand.