Please Advise

Why as my First Appointment been adjourned, should be on the 25th of this month. Ex was processed served document, but still has not replied. Many Thanks.

It does happen i`m afraid.

Do you know why your ex is not playing ball, if there is no real reason and the judge decides the ex will not comply with the court process then ultimately the process will move on.

What will happen depends on how the judge feels, they can continue without the ex or more probable the judge will order a penal notice be served, this can escalate the matter.

At the end of the day we are talking about judges, and judges can send a person to prison if they refuse to do as ordered.

If you call the court and ask to speak with the lister you should get a good idea of how the judge thinks it should be handled.

Thanx for your reply. My ex has just buried his head in sand, no reason why he wont reply, but in the mean time my solicitor has now adjourned the first appointment because there is the matter of an endowment policy. Should I persue this matter. All I want is a fair share of the property I jointly own. Don''t care about his pension and other assets. Feel like giving up and forgetting the matter now.

No you carry on im in a similar situation to you...keep strong and keep going! these men hide everything mine has hidden shares! xx

Thanx for your support its just the cost of it all I''m worried about.

It''s cost me a fair bit to pursue my ex, after waiting patiently for over a year while he stalled...but as of yesterday I am £120k better off for having done so, so it can be worth it!

Snailrunner,
Being nosey. Would love to hear your story. Suspect it may inspire others.

Hadenoughnow