what a mess .. Decree Absolute granted feb 2011 at this time had Consent Order agreed via solicitors and signed buy both parties but not approved through the court..ex husband decided not to remove himself from land registry documents and remortgage offer lapsed after 6 months.
in this time i suffered a broken leg resulting in 7 months off work major surgery required and rehabilitation had to claim on mortgage ppi which only paid half the payments consequently now have mortgage arrears and agreement in place to pay extra every month back.
my ex is now issuing Ancillary Relief procedings with legal aid funding as he is unemployed . my youngest child just reached 18 and looking to attend university oldest is 2 yrs from graduating both still at home with me.
i am paying all the bills and mortgage on matrimonial home will he be able to force a sale through the courts he stands to make 15.0000 maximum based on a 50/50 split if property sold and half my pension CETV 35.0000 has taken 4 years and still not sorted i am not in a position for legal help and cant afford representation how easy is it to self represent through the financial hearings as i have allready got a 3500 bill of costs for previous work done.
at the time of the original agreement he wasnt happy with the costs of pension sharing order as the nhs had just vastly increased the costs and he didnt want to pay them.
since then i have lost remortgage offer and due to sickness from work and missed payments on mortgage i cannot now afford the original agreement i am expecting further surgery will be needed sometime in the future so therefore he now wants property sold to get what the original agreement would have been which will result in further legal costs and disruption to myself and the children