is their any chance i could chat to you 1-2-1 for advice please. happy to disclose everything really need some guidance. I am self repping myself and have done so, for divorce, contact order with children. Ex Wife is really unreasonable.
Firstly, sorry to hear you are in this awful situation.
In order for Wiki''s to help you will need to post a lot more details. There is quite a bit involved in preparing for a FH, especially if self repping.
But, what is your situation, do you have children, their ages, lenght of marriage, housing needs for you both, access to children if applicable, health of you both, your earning capacity and your ex/stbx. Assetts you or both of you have, lenght of marriage.....