Hi can anyone help with the following:
At the time of my separation i sent a letter to my ex stating that i would be contributing to the mortgage on the FMH and to a loan she had.At the time of sending it there were no claim from her for me to pay CSA. It soon became apparent that once my own outgoings were met, along with child support payments that i would not be in a position to continue.
If the stbx sol brings up this letter at the FDR hearing will it have a detrimental effect on me regarding the financial outcome?
Would a judge believe this lettter is relevant in any way?
I don''t think so. That was the situation then. This is the situation now. You can''t be expected to pay everything indefinitely. Mortgage contributions can be seen (even by the CSA) as a form of child support.
Even if you had a signed witnessed agreement to this effect it is unenforceable unless it has been written into a court order.