I'm blmaed of course and the reasons are a load of tosh but I have decided not to defend it as it seems like a lot of work just to say I am right.
What is worrying me though is that there is no mention of the finacal matters of the marriage.
There is a joint loan that I have been taken to court over (and now have a CCJ agaisnt me on) which I would naturally like her to help me pay and there are other matters such as credit cards. There is also the matter of her having sold some of my property about 6 months ago which I have never seen the money for. In order to get some kind of judegment on these do I have to defened the divorce, or does this come latter?
I was reading some other posts and it was noted that any debts created during marriage become joint debts. In my case I have a debt that was taken out while we were living togeather but before we were married (it was to acutally pay for the wedding). I have bank statements that show the money went from my account to hers and our joint account would I be able to claim this as a joint debt?