Hi all,
getting the ball rolling here finally even though my ex was the one that left / wanted the divorce. Suspect I'm the one filing because they dont want to pay the £550 to the courts. Anyway I digress.
The application service on gov.uk has the below
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Dividing your money and property
If you disagree with your wife about how your property, money, pensions and other assets will be split, then you can ask the court to decide for you. This includes maintenance payments.
These decisions are called 'financial orders'. You can apply for orders for yourself, and/or, if appropriate, for your children.
If you both agree on how to split your money and property and want to make it legally binding, you can apply for a '
Consent Order'.
Do you want to apply for a financial order?
Yes / No
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Its asking me if I want to apply for a financial order. I'm viewing this as a bit premature as the legal divorce process hasn't even started so this hasn't been broached at all. I say "legal divorce process" because we've been separated since 2015 and so emotionally we've both moved on and she's now with someone else.
Anyway, is the financial order purely if you disagree? I'd like to think we'd agree on things and therefore will not require one. But theres always the chance we wont. I don't want to apply for something I may not need. Similarly, if I say "no" and things dont go smoothly, can I get one later?