please could some one advise me. i have been paying my top up mortgage and endowment for the last three years since splitting with my wife and leaving the family home. It was agreed between my wife and i that i would furnish the top and mortgage and endowment (which is in joint names)costing over £300.00 per month and this would be classed as paying child maintenace. foolishly listening to her claims that it would affect her claiming benefits, if we did this properly and via CSA. My wife has now declared after three years (still no divorce only at nisi stage) that no such agreement was made and she is now claiming back pay of CSA for three years.
help. foolish not to get in writing but i thought things could be done amicably. i guess not.
I neither claim benefit or work at the moment, but csa been on my case since sept....im exhausted with it all , the hmrc/csa/damn goverment etc
They have paid meno respect for the 25yrs paid into system and worked for 22 in nhs
I am disgusted with this csa and all who work there
I have even resorted to emailing my MP
The whole thing has totally degraded me and i have lost all confidence because of it:(
I dont know what to do next... have just phoned csa again...nothing ...... why bother
weel thats me done