CSA can only be back dated to the date she applies to them for it as i have recently gone through the same with my s2bx....He claims i owe him for the past 4 yrs even though i have provided for our children all through that time. Im paying csa now and still providing for them as i dont like them getting upset when their dad dont get them what they need.
Think she wants the best of both worlds!
Think she wants her extravagant life too continue really ltMiz... time to smell the roses.
She has had a financially worry free life up till now as i subsidised her lifestyle to the detriment of mine a little. I still had what i wanted mind. Separation is financially crippling and she needs to see that.
esox, its quite simple.
Your were paying as much as you would have been whilst at home, it was her actually that made the first move cancelling her wage deposit.
....when you stop paying what you normally do, ie mortgage bills etc, all you are liable to pay is CSA rate, any extra is down to you, she has no ''ask'' for anymore, you now dont live there, she is infact renting your half for now, tell her that....