Thank you so much. My ex a policeman gave me the house in exchange for his pension.
We did the divorce on line ( badly )
A judge wouldnt sign the Consent Order / financial statement even after a letter was sent. Asking about pension sharing.
We went to court and again the judge wouldnt sign saying I needed to seek legal advice. My ex is furious with me.
As 2 judges have deemed it unfair I feel I have got the right to ask for more.
I have not had any info re his financies for many years.
We were married 24 years, 3 grown up children, I have a poor pension due to working part time for many years. I''ve had breast cancer twice, ongoing treatment at the moment.
With an annual pension of 17,000 if I was to get a small percentage it doesnt seem like he will be too hard up. He is only 52 years old. I know the job market is difficult but.
I can stop feeling so guilty now. He has finally agreed to mediation today.