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My ex has only paid half the mortgage for 3 mths now- I left the house almost 2 yrs ago and pay rent for a flat plus £600 per mth for an extension loan on the house so cannot poss pay towards mortgage- the building society have refused a mortgage holiday but will change it over to interest only but i've a feeling he'll only pay half of that!! Im struggling financially at the moment so ancillary relief is too expensive. The house has been up for sale for 18mths but ex has rejected offer saying it was too low. He is also demanding that when it is sold that his private (his name only I knew nothing about them) visa debts ammounting to £70,000 (!!!!) be paid from the equity...we were together 15yrs and have a 12 yr old son who spends 4 nights with him a week- he already receives a pension (about £800 per mth) plus a salary, not sure what of but certainly 25,000 or more. Solicitors letters seem to go back and forth for last 18mths with no outcomes and more bills. He lives with his new partner, I live alone.