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What on earth do i propose for consent order?HELP!

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17 May 12 #331140 by missguided
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Hi Cookie

My original proposal that i put to him verbally was that i get the 2nd house (yes in same area)and a lump of equity from sale of FMH. In fact I told him if he did this i would not take is pension (CETV £95K) into account as i could use the lump sum from FMH as an investment to look after me later in life.
However, because i mentioned this was my ideal settlement he then (just to be awkward) decided that he in fact wanted that house.
Oh the joys!

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17 May 12 #331143 by cookie2
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Sounds like he needs his head read. If he came here asking for advice I think most people would have advised him to accept that offer. I doubt he will get a better one.

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