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I don''t understand this. You did not have to compromise at all. His girlfriend''s location is not your problem. If he refused to pay you then you could have gone through the CSA for child maintenance and applied for maintenance pending suit for spousal maintenance. In fact it sounds as though he was being completely unreasonable, so you could have applied to court anyway. This would also force financial disclosure. I am bit mystified why your solicitor said he couldn''t advise much. The obvious thing to do in your circumstances would be to apply to court.
I wanted to live in the house, but he fought this as our home is 3 hrs drive from where his girlfriend lives -so contact would have been impacted. He basically refused to pay me anything unless I lived nearer him - as I earn very little compared to him, I had to compromise.