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03 Sep 12 #353575 by P0rkypig
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We are both 42 with a 14 yrs and 10yrs children, both living at the marital home if this goes to court, what could I expect the split to be? I currently am paying all household bills except food, no CSA yet as not settled.

House 165,000
ISA/Endowment 49,000
Outstanding mortgage 89,000
Loan 6,400

Both children will stay with me every Thursday night plus every other Fri Sat night

I earn 41,000 fulltime
wife earns 8,000 part time but could double her hrs(would this be taken into account her earning potential)

Pension are the same cvt

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03 Sep 12 #353603 by LittleMrMike
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Oh dear, wouldn''t it be nice to have a crystal ball !

You asked about your wife''s income, and whether she would be expected to work. You don''t say how many hours she does now. It is a controversial subject and we would much welcome some general guidance from the judiciary on the subject. There is evidence that practice varies in different parts of the country.

My own view - and you can take it or leave it, as you please - but I think it is reasonable for a wife to work at least 16 hours a week when the youngest begins secondary education. But I''ve known women who went back to work as soon as it was legally permissible for them to do so. No two cases are ever alike.

But there is quote a disparity in incomes here and this implies you could afford a larger mortgage than she could.

You might, perhaps, be interested to read a paper I prepared which I fondly hoped would give useful general guidance to folks in your position.

If you have any questions, please ask or send a PM.


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