I have been reading up on a Mesher order or deferred charge as this is something I would like but my solicitor has told me my husband has to. Agree to it.
Will be starting divorce proceedings, 2 teenage boys oldest 17 youngest 15 I would like to stay in the family home until youngest is 18 to avoid disruption with schooling etc.
There is about £370k equity in property I would struggle to get a 3 bed property near to school would need to buy something for about £400k.
I wouldn’t afford a mortgage more than £100k over 12 years.