I am in the process of going through a divorce with my narcissist husband of over 20years. I have read some positive feedback about the solicitors here on wikivorce and I wondered if anyone's used their services for a divorce settlement - finances and children's arrangements (our boys are nearly 16yrs and 12yrs old). We are doing mediation but I'd like to engage a solicitor who I can consult in the background. Any recommendations and personal experiences are greatly appreciated. I havent been able to work full time as discovery of my husband's infidenlity throughout our marriage about three years ago pushed me into depression and since then I have tried but struggled to work due to stress and anxiety levels being really high. So money is obviously a concern and so I'd like to find out if the wikivorce solicitors can indeed help with my divorce considering I have a narcissist husband. Many thanks.
Please can someone let me know if they've worked with a solicitor here while dealing with a narcissistic husband in a long marriage. I know the courts dont like the term 'narcissist' but there's clearly a difference in dealing with a divorce case involving one.
Also, while booking a paid consultation with a solicitor, am I able to choose who I want to speak to.