Im new to this site, recommended by my cousin, and have been having a good look around and wish i had spoken to her sooner. Although this is my first post, i have been getting good advice for a while, just reading past posts. I am now divorced, got the absolute, one month ago. He went to work in America for 6mths and met someone else, so wanted a divorce, and never moved back home. We did our clean break etc. Whilst he was away i took savings from our joint account and put them in mine. Nothing was ever said. Now he has been in contact with me, as a friend!!! he keeps mentioning how happy he is etc.. why would i want to know that! I now want to tell him that i cleared out the accounts, just to annoy him, so, am i playing with fire? can he do something, after the clean break, or should i keep it to myself?