Split with my ex 2 years and 4 months ago. Pretty bad split, financial and mental abuse requiring extensive psychotherapy on my end and she was also adulterous. She refused to get a divorce that had any mention of liability on it so made me wait the two years diligently.
Eager to press on after that time scale was up she agreed to a minimal cost divorce through DIY and I agreed to pay the court costs. After I put the petition in she has essentially refused to sign for four months. I said one or two things I regret and now I'm blocked. Wonderful. Anyway.
I know she has received the petition and believe I need to have the reasons changed from 2 years separation with consent to unreasonable behaviour to apply deemed service. Is that possible with a DIY online petition or do I have to repetition? Obviously I'd like to keep costs minimal.
I hope this is in the right place and appreciate any help.
Given the way she's behaving, changing the grounds may not be enough. You have to prepare for her still failing to sign and the consequences and costs of that. This may include an application for deemed service or the need to employ a process server.
I would suggest you write formally to say that if she refuses to sign you will have no alternative but to change the grounds on the petition to UB and seek full costs against her. You could suggest you have been advised you will need a solicitor to do so and the costs will therefore reflect their charges.
If you need assistance with any of the above, give the helpline a call.
Thanks. Would having texts to say she wants the divorce has received the petition but is threatening to dismiss it to wind me up consistent with UB? As we separated 2 years 4 months ago the other reasons may be inadmissible from what I've read? I've come to the end of my tether with the lack of progress and now I'm not too bothered about spending to get it done with as it's now cost my current relationship.