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03 Nov 11 #296083 by soobee
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hi got last mediation tomoz with stbx...as things stand im not hopeful for happy outcome..list of wot we have too split equity on house 170k savings 30k declared(20k hes hidden)pension his 600k...mine none...what he wants.... to buy me out of house 50/50 split on savings ..60%pension to him....oh and he only wants to give half value of house.....hes in house as it was easier for me to move out(i had somewhere to go he didnt)bad move for me i know....i carried on paying mort..another bad move ...i earn 12k he earns 60k......i know i need my head looking at......3 adult ...not sure how this is going to end up and im dreading it.....will keep you posted......if im in any state to do so:( :(:(

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03 Nov 11 #296094 by Birdlegs
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Good luck.

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03 Nov 11 #296096 by robinson25
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just wanted to say anything that you do agree on in mediation is not legally binding. When i read the summary of our mediation, very little of it happened.

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03 Nov 11 #296097 by Birdlegs
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Would have thought it would have been 50/50 split to start with..he may want more but cant see why.

Bird x

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03 Nov 11 #296108 by CarolB_1958
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Good Luck

Take a deep breath, stay calm and firm to what you want.

Carol x

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03 Nov 11 #296117 by Dakota7
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Good luck - keep yourself focussed and remember wiki chums are with you all the way xx
Dak

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05 Nov 11 #296322 by soobee
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thanks guys ....will post how it went asap but bit upset bout it all at the mo...been in tears since leaving mediation yest..mega puffy eyes...:(

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