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Advice on Mediation

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29 Feb 12 #315309 by Action
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Sorry to hear it didn''t go well.

If you are paying for a service which is not being effectively delivered then you are quite entitled to ask for another Mediator. Might you be able to control the situation more if you could face being in the same room? I know it''s hard but if it means that you reach the finish line sooner then maybe it would be worth it. Did you accomplish anything yesterday?

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29 Feb 12 #315343 by jo40
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Hi Action
Achieved absolutly nothing, can''t bare to be in the same room as him its bad enough in the same house! I have spoken to my solicitor this afternoon who says stay with it as he has known this mediator for 21 years and he says she is good and she won''t take any funny business:unsure: maybe it was just because it was the first meeting?

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