xtb thinks she does not have to go to mediation if there is alleged domestic violence she had me arrested because she was behind a door and i opened the door which hit her accidentally i was released with no charge and no caution.she is getting legal aid
Did you recive a caution for this incident? Phone the mediation service and ask them.
I attended my initial mediation appointement and after explaining my situation was told by the mediator that our case was not considerd suitable for mediation for 3 reasons.
1)Mental health, my wife has bipolar
2)Social Services were involved
3}The police had been involved. she calls the police at every given opportunity!
It would be better for the two of you to attend mediation to sort out a financial settlement that you have both reached by mutual agreement. As opposed to having a court order which neither of you are happy with.