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Should I change sols

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13 Feb 08 #13808 by sammie
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Separated for 1 year with x2b moving out of matrimonal home in Aug. We share care for our child 50/50. We earn same/ same pensions etc etc so we have agreed to split house equity 50/50. Not moving fast enough for my ex so she has threatened divorce for unreasonable behaviour and now wants full custody but still 50/50 split.
I sought legal advice and they have stated that child care arrangements are extremely likely to stay as they are. They advised writing to her sols offering we petition for her adultery and split costs. They drafted a letter and sent me a copy to agree. They got two facts completely wrong which I amended and highlighted and sent back asking them to change. Unfortunately they sent out the wrong letter and this has stirred up a hornets nest with my ex trhreatening a petition.
I spoke to my sol and presumed the correct letter would be sent. I receive another letter from my sol examining the x2b threatened petition. My sol letter names my child by the wrong name ( I presume a cut and paste job).

I speak to the new sol in the firm that is handling the case now and they state not to petition for adultery now and that if awarded against me I will be liable for costs which is the opposite of advice I initially got.

My head is saying to part company with them and issue my own petition immediately.

Help any ideas???

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16 Feb 08 #14107 by gone1
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If a sol has taken you on as a client then they are responsible. Is she / he a partner in the firm? If not I would write to one of the partners, set out your case and refuse to pay. That should galvenise them. This sort of thing is intolarable. They have a duty of care. Chris.

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