For two years have been heavy handed with their litigation. Yesterday my four year old son was very unwell.i asked my ex if he could swap days and offered him an alternative as he was laid up in bed. Offered him a forgone call and facetinecetc. Next thing no reply see what was wrong how he was nothing. Just a letter from his solicitor saying I "purporting" that he is unwell!!!
So basically accusing me of lying!? What can I do I have evidence from the Drs and he was threatening to enforce there has not been any other missed contact! Neither did he or solicitor once ask how he was.
Any ideas? I don't take kindly to being told I am lying about my sons health.
Money is no object. He must have got straight on to them and he had told her wrong details but I have he email I sent him as back up he just added some extra what wasn't on there! I asked her to show me where I cancelled contact all weekend and she couldn't!
It's a control issue and unfortunately he does not put my sons welfare first.
The easiest way to deal with this is to show the solicitor that their client is lying to them. Send a copy of the doctor's letter or a photo of the medication with the date/time etc. and politely state that their client has misrepresented the position.
Whilst you have to go to some effort and thus dance to your ex's tune a little, if he is intent upon repeating this stunt he will look less credible in light of false accusations.
He will look like what he is - a controlling ex who has more interest in disrupting his ex's life than having contact with his child.