Help Urgent Advice Please.

Brunswick wrote:

nbm1708 - my boy's are saying that they will not accept alternate w/e's at her rented house with him - full stop.

What they are saying is yes to a few hours during the week and perhaps Sunday lunch for starters.

I agree that I will take a back-seat and allow the boy's very strong wishes to be heard.

Brunswick.

Which is what you need for your case. Take a back seat and the boys do the talking so to speak.

Good luck

T

Morning All,

What a weekend! My stbx has been flooding my boy's with desperate text messages all of which they have ignored. Her family think I am manipulating the boy's - which I am not.

It's hard to keep myself together. 10 months ago we were a lovely family and now it is such a mess. Tell me it will get better because all I can see are choppy waters ahead.

Brunswick.

It will get better. But not before you've been through a storm, unfortunately. I'm afraid all you can do is hold your head up and let everyone else get on with the accusations. She made her bed and is having to lie in it - accusing you of who knows what is par for the course and is something we've all been through. Your boys are old enough to have their own opinions and will express them in court. Hold onto that for now.

mumtoboys - I know you are right. It is so hard to watch my two boy's go through this storm. I am sure we will all come out stronger.

What on earth is going through their Mums head? Surely, she must know the damage she has done and is doing. I agree, the boy's will have their say which I suspect she will find hard to accept.

Brunswick.