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09 Feb 10 #184100 by bobbysuper
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09 Feb 10 #184107 by tom333
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Hello Bobby,
I'm on my way to a job and pulled in for a smoke and to make a couple of calls and decided to have a quick gander at wiki and saw your post and just felt compelled to reply, if only briefly.

I too was a victim of numerous false allegations, some even worse than your's.
Hopefully the Judge as in my case will see them for what they are, just delaying tactics.

I didn't see my daughter for over a year and when we met again she ran to my arms, it was a wonderful moment.
I'm sure the bond you have with your son will still be strong.

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"i have to do this for my son "
This is the attitude which will keep you going and hopefully see you both together again enjoying quality time.

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"i know how people feel now when they don't get to see their children. it is the worst feeling any parent can possibly have in their lfietime."


For me it was a feeling similar to if she had died, a feeling of loss, grief and the fear that I could let her down by losing the case or not being strong enough to continue.

Keep your spirits up mate and things should come good in the end.
I wish you the very best.
Regards,
Tom.

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10 Feb 10 #184354 by Elle
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Bobby,

I truly hope you get the outcome you seek, your son needs this. You are so correct in how debilitating it is for a parent to be deprived of parenting their child with no justifiable reason. Since 13th March 2001 when my ex ran away with our 3 sons I have struggled with "alienation" and false allegation issues, at times unbearable to cope with however they are young men now and I am building relations with two of our sons (and will never give up on the third), not easy either but like yourself and Tom, I can sleep at night knowing I did and always will do the best I could/can with what I had/have for our children. Can their other parent really say that?

E

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