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09 Feb 10 #184107 by tom333
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Hello Bobby,
I'm on my way to a job and pulled in for a smoke and to make a couple of calls and decided to have a quick gander at wiki and saw your post and just felt compelled to reply, if only briefly.

I too was a victim of numerous false allegations, some even worse than your's.
Hopefully the Judge as in my case will see them for what they are, just delaying tactics.

I didn't see my daughter for over a year and when we met again she ran to my arms, it was a wonderful moment.
I'm sure the bond you have with your son will still be strong.

"i have to do this for my son "
This is the attitude which will keep you going and hopefully see you both together again enjoying quality time.

"i know how people feel now when they don't get to see their children. it is the worst feeling any parent can possibly have in their lfietime."

For me it was a feeling similar to if she had died, a feeling of loss, grief and the fear that I could let her down by losing the case or not being strong enough to continue.

Keep your spirits up mate and things should come good in the end.
I wish you the very best.

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I truly hope you get the outcome you seek, your son needs this. You are so correct in how debilitating it is for a parent to be deprived of parenting their child with no justifiable reason. Since 13th March 2001 when my ex ran away with our 3 sons I have struggled with "alienation" and false allegation issues, at times unbearable to cope with however they are young men now and I am building relations with two of our sons (and will never give up on the third), not easy either but like yourself and Tom, I can sleep at night knowing I did and always will do the best I could/can with what I had/have for our children. Can their other parent really say that?


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