The End

krth,

As a daughter whose father rejected her, I feel warranted enough to say...how dare you do that to a human life you are party to brining into this world...have you any idea the impact of your giving up will have on this child, your child, a human being?

As a parent alienated from her children and spending ten years struggling (at great loss) to ensure they dont feel rejected, I feel warranted to ask...how can you give up?

Kids are hard work, kids are selfish...but they they didnt ask to be born, its not their fault one or both their parents are selfish/weak/self centred...but it is every childs right to have both parents in their life if there is no risk to their health/safety...to deny your child that right because the going gets tough...is to deny YOUR child YOUR support.

E

It's scandalous. Carcass would only fund two sessions and after that it's up to me. It's impossible for me to afford that.

I have no other choice to give up. I read your post and I understand where you are coming from. It's not a decision I have taken lightly

just attend the nearest Families Need Fathers meeting (fnf). I am sure it will help you. Will only take a couple of hours of your time.

krth1985 wrote:

It's scandalous. Carcass would only fund two sessions and after that it's up to me. It's impossible for me to afford that.

I have no other choice to give up. I read your post and I understand where you are coming from. It's not a decision I have taken lightly

Your choice mate,
But one I have no doubt you'll live to regret.
Best of luck.
Tom.

hi krth

Alot of the respondents are very passionate parents that believe so much in what a parent is in this world.

All I ask is don't close the door on contact, if you have to right letters and send photos and make the most of the moments you have with your daughter, your daughter will always want to know who you are and to know that you will be there for her, when she needs you, a person she can call on for support.

I one point I too wanted to give up when I didn't see my lil girl for 8 mths and hurt me so deeply, but my best friend convinced me to keep on going, I was even prepared to immigrate to be close to my lil girl, she is so special to me, and believe me a father - daughter relationship is very special just as equally a mother son relationship.

Please think about your options and don't rush it, you will know in your own mind what you want to do

Take care

Pheonix

tom333 wrote:

krth1985 wrote:

It's scandalous. Carcass would only fund two sessions and after that it's up to me. It's impossible for me to afford that.

I have no other choice to give up. I read your post and I understand where you are coming from. It's not a decision I have taken lightly

Your choice mate,
But one I have no doubt you'll live to regret.
Best of luck.
Tom.

A parents choice, that a parent may regret...but a childs life, a child that cannot choose such decision, a child that will live with the impacts of this decision the parent that created them makes...feckin shit place for that child...a parent leaving a child like this aint considering the child....and to all those that want to bite my ass...have you been that abandoned child?

E

Not that this has any importance in my opinion but i was brought up by my dad, my mother left when my brother was months old and I was not even 2 year old. So I know what it feels like to be abandoned. I still speak to my mum, a few times a year. Would I miss her if she was gone? No