first cafcass hearing outcome good and bad news

Thanks Gershie
I just called son he was walking home from school. He said he is coming home
Five minutes later he texted me to say he is going to aunties house by buswhich is twenty minutes drive away
obviously dad called him to say do not go home
would CAFCASS consider daughters statements saying aunty tried to brain wash her but due to her being 15 she could judge what the truth was and she has witnessed the dad and aunty trying to brain wash son?
I need to write a statement on why I am a better parent anyone who has been following my posts can read and advice me my most important points. thanks
Right now he seems very angry with me and completely refuses to speak to me or be with me in same room. I ahve been the single parent all these yrs now I have to deal with this?

seriously how can law allow this?

After hearing x2b is continously torturing daughter verbally by abusing her because she took my side??
anyone please advice she keeps crying continously everyday
I feel I am living with a mad man on the loose he is so crazy that he shouts everyday and swears so badly I am so fed up .. when will this crap be over I want to move on with my children.. I feel so sorry for my children.. these shouls have been thier hapy times they waited 4 yrs for dad to return..

Hi Ssoria

Unless you take specific action then the abuse will continue. The ex will feel that it has worked with the son and is now seeking to do the same with the daughter.

If the daughter is seriously distressed then it is time for her to take her own action. She may not like it because its her dad but she can only take so much.

Unfortunately if the ex will not listen to reason then she has to seek some kind of order stopping him from this kind of behaviour. I would speak to the Police and ask specifically for an officer who deals with child matters (Child Protection Team). They can advise you on the best way to approach this. Perhaps they may go and talk to him and warn him about his behaviour. Drastic I know but your daughter's sanity is at stake.

Gershie

my adughter already said in her statement that aunty tried to brainwash me but she being 15 was not influenced but son being only 11 and mind you she and ex have been trying for the past two years to drift him away from me.will CAFCASS or consider this. I even noticed his school planner he has my signatures throughout this year except from 15 march onwards

I walked in police station today and complained about ex2bs behaviour. He was being very abusive.Three days continously daughter had been crying. she had no dinner last night as ex2b was in the dining room and we had no access to kitchen until he left at 11:00 pm
Police called me to say they called him to ask him to be reasonable.
the policeman said he had a different story.. ex2b always does this by twisting everything and making it as if we are the badies..
He now bought chinese food and trying to win daughter back..
is it possible that daughter will be tempted to change her statement?
son still not home its 19:15 for past 4 days he has not seen me. I called him on the phone and he was very rude..
I dont want to loose my son.. I love him very much and I know from past experience with exs family theyve turned some children against thier mum and its very sad to see how much they hate thier mum. I knkw the mum and know she loves her boys and I am very scared to end up like that..
I still share parental responsibilty but ex told me not to touch anything of son. stop ironing and washing his stuff..
what about all the 11 yrs when I did???

I WANT MY SON BACK!

Of course you do Ssoria, parent alienation must be one of the hardest crosses to bare.
Thinking of you and i so hope that you get this resolved soon.

Take care, Chris.