anyone ever been through the enforcement process??

CAFCAS never filed their reports in time and were thrown off the case in favour of a full section 37. My sons are 15 and 11. Oh and I think dragging a screaming child to a place they do not want to go against their wishes is cruel, as is punishing the one parent they have faith in.

The school agreement is mute as if my child was afraid/distressed by going I could sort it or move schools.

Does the young one have reasons for not wanting to go?

could you not encourage one of the older ones to go with the young one so the young one feels more comfortable?

Although I don''t know your full story, your ex must love his children and feel that a relationship with him is in their best interests or why would he bother going through the costly and stressful court process?

He gets legal aid and nope, he only went for access after I won the house to punish me. The oldest will never go as ex hit him, younger son remember the emotional and physical abuse he inflicted on me plus all the vile lies.

Youngest has no memory of him after 2 years of not really seeing him the twice he came he beat me up. She only repeats what her brothers say, think, act.

seems like your situation is very different to mine.

Hope it all goes well, do you have a court date yet?

Some more anti contact posts here... Really not helpful.....
If your child is screaming disneybubbey when your stbx collects your child I would consider taking her to a child psychologist or trying to encourage contact with her father rather than telling her she doesn''t have to go. If she didn''t like schOol and said she didn''t want to go would you up route her just to keep her happy? And if so, what would be the case a week later when she didn''t like the new school??
You say won the house, it''s not a competition.

Also if there is issues with dv you should contact the police, if there is issues with child safety you should contact police and social services. I is the CHILDS right to have contac with their father, and before you say they don''t want the contact , think is it you or them that doesn''t want it and perhaps if you were more more positive about their father when they are in earshot then things would be different despite your feelings towards him, he is their father.

My oldest is 15, he has his own opinion and is free to contact his father. He chooses not to. Tell me if you grew up watching your mother attacked and degradeded, then thea use move onto you would you want to spend time with the abuser. Furthermore would you want your baby sister to experience the same issues.

Have you any idea how frightening is, I''m a full grown woman and I couldn''t defend myself. How the hell can a 4 year old. Before you say just because he hit you does not mean he will hit her retread he hit eldest son.